I think my spouse fights dirty, did I really deserve this?

I noticed that my spouse always fights dirty. I think he reacts too mean and doesn't see when he's wrong. So there's this thing he does that really gets on my nerves. He knows it gets on my nerves and I have told him many times to stop. What he'll do is, he'll pretend he's going to hold my hand and once I hold it, he'll squeeze it and fart. I know it sounds funny, but I think it's idiotic and he really knows how to kill the mood. Sometimes it's funny, but for the most part it's old and I think he's messed up for making me think he's about to do something sweet. So today we went to the beach with the kids. We were all starving and ready to go home to eat. In the car he did that again and this time I pulled my hand away quickly in an irritated fashion. I was tired, hungry and PMSing. When we got home he asked me if I wanted something to eat. He only asks me this when I'm in a bad mood because he knows I will ignore him and he wants to make me feel bad by making everyone something to eat and not me. I stood quiet and he made some sandwiches and didn't make one for me. Now before you guys question why he's the one making the food, I cook or prepare all the meals pretty much every single day. He only asked me if I wanted something to eat because he knew I'd ignore him and he wanted to have the pleasure of feeding everyone but me. I think that's pretty mean cause he knew we were are starving our s off and I'm always making him something to eat. He did this just because I ignored him, but why does he do stupid things like grabbing my hand to fart? I'm so annoyed right now. I think denying me food as a way to get me back for ignoring him is pretty low. And of course I am a grown adult and can make myself something to eat, it's just the principle that bothers me. Why does he think he can act like a farting buffoon all the time and think I'm suppose to be happy about it? I told him it hurts my feeling when he pretends like he's going to do something nice and instead ridicules me. He just says "Oh stop it" and ignores my point. Am I overreacting? It’s not even about the stupid farting thing. It’s more about him wanting to make me feel excluded as a way to punish me.